You know that feeling when you meet someone and you know you will be friends forever.... that's the feeling I got from Tori. First impressions were beautiful, articulate, funny, open and fun fun fun. Our first conversation resulted in many many laughs, not giggles, belly laughs and since then there have been many more.
Since our first meeting a year ago when we met at work Tori continues to surprise and amaze me, in the best possible way. Some things I've learned in addition to my first impression
1. She continually wants to develop as a person, intellectually and spiritually, She reads and reads and reads and has the ability to pick pearls of wisdom to help her reflect and become a better person. That might sound very deep and profound but this is not all consuming for her. She is focussed but not fixated.
2. She is social! She loves to mingle and without trying tends to get LOTS of attention. She's that girl in the room that people want to get to know and gravitate towards. However, although you may be surrounded by people she has an amazing ability to connect with you and just you. A true gift. Being social to her is all about people. She doesn't drink and doesn't need to drink. Always up for a gathering and first to suggest Karaoke. The sexiest thing I find about her is how unaware she is of her magnetism. So a top tip would be. If you like her, TELL HER. Don't be subtle.
3. I could go on.... and on.... and on but I want you to keep reading and so I will summarise
She has a great career and is respected by her colleagues but works to live and not lives to work
She loves her fitness but she loves her food just as much
She loves Stevie Nicks but can drop it likes its hot
She comes across as a extroverted but enjoys her alone time
She is independent and needs nothing but is a hopeless romantic...poetry, letters, candles, home cooked meals are a winner!
Basically in my eyes she is the package that needs a bow! But even without a bow is still THE MOST AMAZING GIFT.
When I first met Tori she was in tears. It was a conference. Other girls were milling around her (as girls do when one of the flock is in distress). Can’t recall what it was about. Doesn’t matter. Any drop in defence on Tori’s part was momentary, I would later learn. Tori is no pushover.
16 years. That’s how long I’ve known Tori. We had an extended period there where we both went off and experienced life on life’s terms with other people. When our friendship reconnected there was something different. Tori had changed. Tori had become her own woman, confident and strong, and ready to take on the world. I just hope that the world knows what’s coming.
But if I were to unleash anyone on the world, it would be Tori.
Tori brings love, the base of all that is good in this world. Tori gives her time freely but also enjoys time alone. Tori is funny but never goofy. Intelligent and thoughtful but never out to win an argument. Tori wants all the good things in her life to be shared with those around her. Even virtual strangers. Tori understands what it means to care for people, and expects nothing in return. Tori could teach the world many lessons; I admire that Tori is receptive to lessons presented to her; her lessons are embraced then shared with friends. Growth is a lovely thing to witness in a person.
You’ll find all types of food in Tori’s fridge. Party food. Strengthening food. Comfort food. Tori has an exercise regime that affords her luxuries. Chocolate cake but never lollies. Always Gelato over icecream.
Tori shouldn’t have to suffer fools but sadly, fools abound. The type of guy Tori needs is not for me to say. But I will suggest, Tori is more likely to be attracted to men who are humble, strong, self assured and confident, but not arrogant. Treat Tori with kindness, be firm and dependable. But that’s all I’ll say; the rest is up to you.
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